A business lunch carries more weight than most meetings. There is no screen to hide behind and no agenda to lean on, and the person opposite you forms a view long before the contract is mentioned. Host well at Ivory Club and the setting does much of the work: quiet rooms, discreet service, and nobody hovering to ask whether everything is still tasting lovely.

Get a few things wrong, though, and the same room can feel slow, exposed and oddly formal. What decides the outcome is not charm but preparation: the space you choose, the menu you settle in advance, the clock you keep, and how you steer the conversation. The club’s layout rewards a little forethought. Choose the wrong corner and you will spend the lunch talking over a service station; choose the right one and the conversation flows as if the room were built for it. None of it is complicated, but all of it is easier to get right before you sit down.

Decide what the lunch is for before you book

Every business lunch is one of three things, and each calls for a different room and a different pace.

• The introduction. You want a prospective client or partner to leave liking you and understanding what you do. Conversation matters more than conclusions. Example: a first meeting with a new supplier — aim for warmth and clarity, not a hard sell.
• The working lunch. Two or three decisions need making. You need quiet, room for papers, and enough time to finish properly. Example: reviewing a contract clause by clause with a lawyer.
• The thank-you. Existing clients, a departing colleague, someone who sent work your way. Generous and largely about them. Example: taking a long-standing client out after a successful project.

Write the purpose down in one line before you call the club. It tells you how long to book for, whether you need a door, and who should be doing most of the talking. If you are unsure, the reservations team can advise on rooms and timings. A common mistake is booking a private room for an introduction. The silence can feel like an interrogation. For a first meeting, a semi-private table gives you just enough buzz to relax into the conversation.

Choosing the right room

Rooms set the tone more than any menu does. At Ivory Club the choice usually comes down to three.

A private dining room

Book it when confidentiality matters, when four or more are coming, or when the conversation will move quickly between subjects. The door keeps the discussion in and signals that this is a serious meeting. It can feel flat with only two people in it, so use it for groups rather than one-to-one. Ask for the room with the round table if you want everyone to feel equal; a rectangular table creates a head, which is useful if you are chairing.

A semi-private table

The best option for most business lunches. You get separation, a little background noise to soften silences, and the feel of a members' club rather than a boardroom. Ask for a corner away from the service pass and the door, and mention if your guest would rather not be overheard. This is also the safest bet if you are unsure how the lunch will go. It gives you the option to linger or to wrap up without ceremony.

The main dining room

Ideal for someone you already know well. Livelier, which helps if conversation is the point and hinders if you need to talk figures. If you are reviewing a document together, sit side by side rather than directly opposite. It turns a confrontation into a collaboration.

Wherever you sit, think about sightlines. Your guest should face the room, not the door or the kitchen. It is a small courtesy most hosts miss. Also check the noise level: a table near the bar might be fine at 12.30pm and impossible by 1.15pm.

Timing: the ninety-minute default

Book for an hour and a half. Long enough for two courses and a proper conversation, short enough that nobody starts checking the time. Two hours is the practical ceiling; past that, goodwill starts to drain. If you need longer, book a private room and say so upfront.

Start at 12.30pm where you can. It gives a natural finish by two, and your guest is not arriving distracted after a morning of back-to-back calls. If your guest is coming from far away, offer 12.45pm or 1pm, but keep the finish in mind.

A few timing habits worth keeping:

• Arrive ten minutes early, check the table and leave your coat.
• Meet your guest at the door rather than waiting at the table.
• Order drinks only after your guest has chosen; water on the table from the start.
• If your guest is late, give them fifteen minutes before ordering. If they are later than that, order a starter so the kitchen does not fall behind.
• Watch the clock. At the ninety-minute mark, ask for the bill even if you plan to linger.

The most common timing error is letting a working lunch drift into a third hour. By then, decisions become fuzzy and the goodwill you built evaporates. A crisp finish is a compliment: it says you respect their time.

Ordering: menu, drinks and pace

Ordering is where many hosts try to be generous and end up making the lunch harder. A few rules keep it smooth.

• Pre-order when you can. At Ivory Club, the team can take your menu choices in advance for larger tables. It removes the awkward pause while everyone reads.
• Keep it to two courses. A starter and a main, or a main and a dessert. Three courses is a dinner, not a lunch.
• Drink lightly or not at all. If you drink, match your guest. If they order water, you order water. Never push a second bottle.
• Ask about dietary needs when you invite. Not at the table. It saves your guest from an uncomfortable negotiation with the waiter.

If you are hosting a working lunch, suggest a set menu. It speeds things up and keeps the bill predictable. If you are hosting a thank-you, let your guest choose freely and order something you know they will enjoy.

Etiquette: the host's job

The host sets the temperature. You are not there to perform, but you are there to make the other person comfortable.

• Greet first. Stand when your guest arrives. Introduce them to anyone else at the table.
• Steer the conversation. Start with something light — travel, the week, a shared interest — then move to business when the drinks arrive.
• Listen more than you talk. A business lunch is not a pitch. Ask questions, then be quiet.
• Phones away. Yours especially. If you must check it, excuse yourself.
• Never argue about the bill. It is your invitation; you pay. Let the guest offer once, then move on.

If the conversation stalls, ask about a recent success or a challenge they have mentioned before. People relax when they talk about what they know. And if a sensitive topic comes up, lower your voice rather than shutting it down.

Closing the lunch well

The last five minutes matter as much as the first. Ask for the bill quietly, check it, and settle it away from the table if you can. Stand when your guest stands. Walk them to the door or to their car, and thank them specifically for their time — not just “thanks for coming.”

Then send a short follow-up the same day. One or two lines: what you enjoyed, what you agreed, and the next step. It takes two minutes and it makes you look organised. A lunch that ends without a follow-up is a meal; a lunch that ends with one is a relationship.

“The best business lunches feel effortless. That is because someone prepared.”

Do the preparation, and Ivory Club does the rest. The room, the service and the quiet corners are all there to help you. Use them well, and the person opposite you will remember the conversation, not the logistics.

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